If you’re trying to make heads or tails of the typical free fucking sites you joined, welcome to the club. Most guys who join a simple and easy free fuck site often found themselves way over their heads. It seems like all the other dudes on those websites are fucking except for you.
Well, it’s perfectly fine to think this way but don’t beat yourself up. The reality is that the vast majority of dudes that visit free fucking sites do not get laid. They talk a big game, they try to impress other people by bragging about non-existent pussy, but the reality is reality. Most guys who join such websites flat-out fail.
I’m not saying that you should gain a tremendous amount of comfort and assurance from this reality. One of the most pussy attitudes you can ever adopt is to drag other people down so you can feel good. The bottom-line is regardless of how much guys around you fail to get pussy, it doesn’t make your inability to find and fuck pussy go away. Do you see the issue here? Don’t content yourself and comfort yourself with the fact that other guys are having a tough time achieving what you’re trying to achieve. Fuck that shit.
Stop comparing yourself to others and focus more on selling yourself. This is where you will make tremendous headway. You have to understand that online dating whether the wholesome traditional way or nasty, kinky, adult anonymous sex type, all involves selling. You have to sell yourself because sales is really getting people to do what they normally would not do. It’s all about persuasion. It’s all about seduction.
Unfortunately, most people are not very excited about selling. They think it’s beneath them. They think they just don’t have what it takes. That’s complete and total bullshit. The truth is, if you have a great product, you will be able to sell it by simply understanding that product and getting into the heads of people who have a need of that product. Pretty straightforward, this is Salesmanship 101. So if you want to effectively sell yourself on the free fucking sites that you joined, pay attention to the following.
Focus on your unique selling proposition
Everybody has a unique selling proposition. I don’t care if you look like the dude from The Hunchback of Notre Dame. I don’t care if you are missing one leg or missing one eye, you will always have something of value. Maybe it’s your laugh. Maybe it’s your sense of humor. Maybe you tell great stories. Maybe you’re a very creative person. Whatever it is, you have something that is unique to you and that is your unique selling proposition.
Don’t hide that shit under a bowl. Let it shine to the greater world and be proud of who you are. That’s what you have to offer. That’s what you have to bring to the table. There’s no shame in that game. Allow yourself to be confident about you’re unique selling proposition.
Communicate in a compassionate way
Now that you have an idea about the personal traits that you can feel proud about, you have to communicate your pride in the right way. A lot of guys think that if they have an 18-inch cock, 10 million dollars in the back, a Ferrari, then that’s all they need to talk about. They feel that it’s some sort of mantra that they just keep repeating, repeating, and repeating until pussy, all of a sudden, magically appears.
Of course, that doesn’t work that way. Life is not a script to a porno movie. Life doesn’t work that way. You have to communicate the benefits you bring to the table in such a way that speaks peoples’ needs. As expert sales people kept telling me throughout the years again and again: to get what you want, you have to first give people what they need. Focus on their needs. Pay attention to what they need and how you can craft or position your unique selling proposition in a way that addresses their needs.
As the old saying goes, people won’t care about what you know unless they know you care. The same applies to basic persuasion. People don’t give a rat’s ass bout how badass you are. All they care about is whether you can solve their issue. Do you bring something tangible to the table as far as their needs are concerned? If you’re able to bridge this gap and concern then you have become very, very persuasive indeed.
It’s all about personal connections
Have you ever noticed that sales people oftentimes mimic your words when you’re talking to them? Have you ever noticed that sometimes, sales people would copy or do certain mannerisms or gestures you have? This is not an accident. They’re not mocking you. They’re not fucking around with you. They’re trying to sell you.
You see, when you interact with people who talk about the same things you talk about and say the same things in pretty much the same way, you cannot help but identify with them. You cannot help but like them. Why? People like other people who are similar to them. The world can be a hostile place so when we interact with people that we see eye to eye with, we rather stick with those people because they provide us comfort.
Create comfort by proving a sense of familiarity. How do you do this? Strategically mimic the woman you’re trying to communicate with. At worst, she would feel that you are neutral. At best, you get inside those panties.
